Gregg and Shelly Dedrick are founders of Iron Bell Ministries. They have a powerful story of marriage restoration that has inspired countless couples. In today’s episode of The Beacon Show, the Dedricks shared their journey from the brink of divorce to a thriving ministry. It focused on helping others cultivate intimacy with God and each other.
Gregg is a former corporate executive who once served as president of KFC. He recalls the moment their marriage hit rock bottom: “We went through a deep, dark tunnel in our marriage. Every day we had to say, are we going to stay in this? And we’re 25 years into it.” This crisis led them to seek intensive couples therapy. They committed to weekly sessions despite Gregg’s demanding career.
Their story is not just about overcoming marital challenges. It is also about discovering a deeper relationship with God in the process. Shelly shares, “The Lord took me on a journey, which as we all know is a process, but I just literally cried out to him.” This cry for help became the catalyst for profound personal and spiritual growth.
Watch Gregg and Shelly’s full interview on YouTube!
Power of Vulnerability in Christian Marriage
Gregg emphasizes the importance of being vulnerable in the healing process. He says, “There are some things in there that I’d love to take a whiteboard and erase and write something that makes me look a little better. But it was really that vulnerability that opened up the healing for me.”
Vulnerability is often seen as a weakness, especially in the context of Christian leadership. Yet, Dedrick’s experience demonstrates that it’s a crucial element in rebuilding trust and fostering genuine intimacy. By embracing vulnerability, couples can create a safe space for honest communication and mutual understanding.
Cultivating Spiritual Intimacy
The Dedricks discovered that true intimacy with God goes beyond religious practices. Gregg explains, “The Lord was saying, no, the most important command is to love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, strength. So, Lord, how do I do that?”
This realization led them to explore new ways of connecting with God. It helped them to move beyond traditional devotional practices. They found that adoration prayer and worship became powerful tools for deepening their relationship with God and each other. By prioritizing spiritual intimacy, couples can strengthen their bond and find renewed purpose in their marriage.
Discovering God's Purpose
Through their journey, Gregg and Shelly learned to see their lives as part of God’s greater plan. Gregg shares, “Ephesians 2:10 says we’re God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which he’s prepared in advance for us to do.”
This shift in perspective allowed them to view their marriage struggles as an opportunity for growth and ministry. By aligning their lives with God’s purpose, couples can find renewed meaning and direction, even during challenges.
Partnering with God in Faith and Work
The Dedricks emphasize the importance of partnering with God in all aspects of life. Gregg illustrates this with a powerful analogy: “I grab your hand and say, let’s go get them champ. I’m not on the sidelines. I’m on the field with you.”
This concept of active partnership with God challenges the notion of compartmentalizing faith and work. By inviting God into every area of life, including career decisions and daily activities, couples can experience His guidance and provision in tangible ways.
Overcoming Spiritual Warfare in Marriage
Gregg points out how the enemy often attacks marriages: “The enemy likes to kill things in its infancy, right? And marriage is a reflection of the image of God.” He encourages couples to be aware of spiritual warfare and to stand firm in their faith.
Recognizing the spiritual dimension of marital challenges can help couples approach their problems with a renewed perspective. By understanding the tactics of the enemy and relying on God’s strength, couples can build resilience and overcome obstacles together.
Conclusion
Gregg and Shelly Dedrick’s story is a testament to the transformative power of couples therapy. It is rooted in Christian principles. Their journey began with a struggling marriage. Through deepening their intimacy with God, they found healing and restoration in their relationship. This ultimately led to a thriving ministry and a renewed sense of purpose.
For couples facing similar challenges, the Dedrick offers hope and practical advice. They encourage cultivating a teachable spirit. And seeking God’s presence in everyday moments, and committing to the journey of growth together. As Gregg puts it, “It’s not always easy. It rarely is easy, but what I’ve found is that it’s very fruitful and it oftentimes is the launching pad for what God wants you to do.”
By embracing vulnerability, Christian couples can open their hearts to one another. Cultivating spiritual intimacy allows them to connect deeply with God and each other. Discovering God’s purpose brings direction and meaning to their relationship. Partnering with Him in faith and work strengthens their bond and trust. By overcoming spiritual warfare together, couples experience profound restoration and growth in their marriages.
About Greg
Gregg Dedrick is a former corporate executive turned ministry leader. His background includes serving as the president of KFC and holding executive positions at Yum Brands. Gregg’s shift from the corporate world to full-time ministry reflects a deep transformation in his view of faith, marriage, and purpose. This journey reshaped his life, leading him to a more meaningful path in ministry.
Gregg’s own experiences with marital challenges and spiritual growth have ignited his passion for helping others. He is dedicated to guiding people toward intimacy with God and discovering their true purpose. His leadership style reflects a blend of business acumen and spiritual insight. This combination gives him a unique perspective on integrating faith and work. Gregg’s approach helps others navigate both their personal and professional lives with a stronger sense of purpose.
Make sure to check out Gregg Dedrick’s new book, Building in the Spirit. Gregg’s heart is to help people learn how to adore God, discover their purpose for their life, and to partner with God to carry that out. This is the promise in John 10:10 of having life to the full. To further your journey of building in the Spirit and to learn about opportunities with Gregg and his team, visit Greggdedrick.com.
About Shelly
Shelly Dedrick brings a wealth of personal experience and creative insight to Iron Bell Ministries. Her journey of healing from childhood wounds and rediscovering her value in God’s eyes has equipped her to minister to others facing similar struggles.
Shelly’s artistic background influences her approach to ministry, often using creative expressions to help others connect with God. Her testimony of overcoming self-doubt and learning to receive God’s love has inspired many women to embrace their true identity in Christ.
Resources Mentioned
“Building in the Spirit: The Life God Destined for You” by Gregg Dedrick
